The 3 Rules of Toy Play with Your Dog: I have it. You have it. We share it.

Play isn’t just fun—it’s a powerful training tool.

When you understand and use the three core principles of play, you can unlock a world of learning and connection with your dog.

I have it.
This builds your dog’s desire and motivation. You’re the source of the fun!

You have it.
This boosts your dog’s confidence and sense of power. It helps them feel like a winner.

We share it.
This creates connection and teamwork. It’s where real relationship is built.

Learning to adjust these depending on your dog’s personality, strength, and confidence level is key.

A more insecure dog might need more “You have it,” while a strong, high-arousal dog might benefit from more “We share it” to build control and focus.

– Play builds confidence.
– Play channels arousal.
– Play creates focus.
– And during tricky developmental phases like adolescence, it can be a total game-changer.

So next time you grab a toy, remember: it’s not just play—it’s teaching, bonding, and growing, together.

The 3 Rules of Play: I have it. You have it. We share it.